Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Adoption by single woman-should it be allowed ?



It all came into limelight when the actress Sushmita Sen decided to become a single mom in 2000.The main question here is that should it be allowed but by whom, law allows it, but the main problem comes from society, parents which never believe in this kind of adoption, a narrow thinking. It takes time for the people to really broader their thinking about this issue.
Let’s get into that how the thought of becoming a single mom have come up in mind. It’s all because in today’s bold era where women are more career oriented, they prefer a child without marriage, it helps them to be more happy and independent. The great step like this is totally in favour of society as it helps an orphan to get a better life, what else do you want? It’s not that the child you gave birth is yours; always the guardian is bigger than the creator. You can take the example of Hindu mythology, where Lord Krishna is always known to be Yashoda’s son, who didn’t give him birth.
  The great step like this shows the smartness and independent nature of women. This step also helps us in providing a control over tremendously growing population. Recently CBSE has also announced that the father’s name is optional in the different examination forms filled by students. This is also a great move in support of this issue.
I would like to clear that a proper law Hindu Adoption and Adoption Act 1956 has been made for adoption where people with income Rs. 3000 and above, with full family support and age between 30 to 45 years are allowed for adoption. Even after adoption, a proper homestudy is conducted at regular intervals where the guardian of child is seen that is he able to meet all the basic requirements of the child.
In 2009, Ms. Sushmita Sen adopted another child who will really motivate the women of today to go and take this noble step.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Man created God....!!!

Man created God or God created man? Before I answer this question I would like to ask one more question what is God? God is nothing but a hypothetical concept just like ghosts which are used to fear a small child from wrong doings. My friends say that God is a divine power which exists in the world without which the life is not possible. According to me, God are we the people, all the living organisms who are reading this or living anywhere on earth. Here the question arises where the hell we people came from? GOD..!..or the Darwin Theory as some of you might be thinking. I agree that we really don’t have a proof of our existence butt researches are being carried out at Cern in Geneva and we are not really far away from this mystery.
Some say God exists in temples where we have that purity which cannot be achieved anywhere else. But purity lives within us, if we live happily with all good feelings then you can feel that purity, that peace anywhere. May people go to temple, donate money, a funny thing and still do wrong things, don’t have the feeling of love in them and go for forgiveness to temples. There is no God in Idols. Scientists also go to temple but for peace, it’s a place where we feel peace not because there is god but because of the atmosphere present, which we can create anywhere on earth. The priests, the live thieves of our society are making people fools like anything and earn a good income with some good Sanskrit.
I would like to throw some light on the magic that mostly occur in India like the Jyot in Jwalaji or the honey, vibhooti coming out of religious photos. These all are magic till their discovery like the Sun, the Moon all were considered God but now the man has conquered the moon and we know reasons for their shine or let it be eclipses, but still people are worshipping moon and sun without a reason. Giving water to sun without a reason is just disgusting but has a reason that rays passing through the morning sun have a good effect on our body. Many Hindu rituals like feet touching have a reason and technique but have become nothing less than formality which was supposed to transfer energy between elders and children. Festivals have become a routine rather than the fun it was celebrated for. The religions were made for good reasons which have become the most dangerous thing in our society.
In this scientific era, still many superstitious like the bath in Haridwar or cat crossing our way etc. are still believed. In a report prepared by IIT students it was revealed that a regular bath in Haridwar can turn dangerous for our health as it can cause cancer. More than one Lac heavens are conducted daily in India which is also a major concern in pollution and deforestation. Nobody looks into these issues when talking about SAVE TREES. These foolish things are just leading in damage of our environment, believing in these things will only lead to the delay of many discoveries. It was correctly shown in the movie Bhool Bhulaiya that all the vibrations, connection to God are internal things, a physiological thing. Psychology has a major concern in believing in God.
We also relate God to destiny or luck which is nothing special but are the regular things occurring in our life. I have written this, my luck, you reading there, your luck, these are just some of the special regular things which occur by our courage and by chance.
People say to me, in fact my brother that you will also start believing in that divine power one day, but when I said that I don’t believe in God? I believe in him as a true friend, a good human being. I see God in every nice person.
At last I would like to state that everything does have logic. Young Generation is a bit less believing in God, in all those rituals or superstitions. I hope we get to see God in everyone of us in the near future. Man always created God, as a child but God is again created into man by our society. Please Love all, Serve all.

Any questions can be asked in form of comments.

Monday, January 10, 2011

EDUCATION SYSTEM IN INDIA..!!!!


Education- a word, whenever we hear, images of books come in front of our eyes. But it’s really much more than that. Education has many types like Moral education, physical education, entertainment education which includes music, dance & other acts, and at last we have scientific education. But in India only the scientific education is given the most preference and that too in an unscientific way. The rest types of education are really lost somewhere, nobody is here interested about them.
Here in India, we are being forced, yes you read it right, we are forced to study the books rather it should be fun to read books. Here we are doing nothing less than rote learning. We are forced in such a system where you have to study the most of useless things in a useful way. I don’t know where are we heading to? We are just trying to make ourselves nothing less than dummies. Many times you have been asked your marks, your 12th, your 10th marks, but how many times have somebody asked you that what instrument you play, in which game you are interested, what are your interests? Rare, really very rare, nobody is interested in anything except your marks.
In my context, root to many problems is our education system, this pressurised education system which is causing many suicides. If we think deeply, the poor education system is causing more problems in our development rather than poor not getting education.
We have adopted our constitution from many countries, so why don’t we adopt a good education system, it’s really better in countries like USA, Finland etc where they focus more on practical’s, your interests etc.
Education system needs improvement, a real improvement. So wake up guys, it’s better to act otherwise it will be very late.